Confessions of the Caffeinated Sprinkle Fairy

Wednesday, December 15, 2004

a major dilema

hey...
heres a problem that a friend of mine has...
if you have any input, leave a comment, email me, or talk to me at skool... watever,
just major advice needed.

a friend of mine did pot a couple months ago. she told me it was only a one time thing.
then she did it a couple more times...
when i started getting worried, she started making promises.
now she's doing it again.
when i said "didnt you promise me you werent going to do pot/"
she says "i realise that i broke that prosmis to you, but to tell you the truth its not going to happen again cus i do it anymore if i want to keep playing volleyball"
i say "i dont care that you broke a promise to me, its alot more important than that"
then she asks "speaking of which what nights do you practice?"

i said "we'll talk about that later.
i'm not even sure what to tell you
i want to tell you that your being a stupid ass, but thats the wrong way to go about it.
then i could list all the reasons its bad. but you've heard all those before.
i could remind you about my friends in NY, who nearly OD last year."

then of course, she relieves all my worry (sarcasm) by saying "and its fin julie, i made the stupid mistake of doing it a cupple times. but i have now found my "anti-drug" not to sound corny or anything but i wont be doing it any more and ive also given up drinking."

o ya. theres a whole load of shit i dont need right now.

any advice would be greatly appreciated.



9 Comments:

At 6:19 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

um... i dun really know wat to say... sides if ur friend cant realize that ur trying to help them and they keep making BS comments, den mayb they not ur friend? or a person u watn as ur friend?

IM me if u need me,
Psyco Shrinko
Bill

 
At 12:17 PM, Blogger Caffeine831 said...

yea, but sar... dont get involved.
the last time you talked was like months ago, since that fight. she'll know if you just pop up when this starts.
i'm just pissed that she has to keep lying to me (and herself). its not like i dont know all her dirty little secrets.and its not helping the situation any.

 
At 3:55 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

do i no this person

_mackenzie

 
At 4:32 PM, Blogger Caffeine831 said...

no, mackie...
its no one from marlboro...
marlboro is actually really G-rated

 
At 4:56 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

damn. but hey, im exactly the wrong person who should be asked advice. about this, especially.

but still, even as a fellow druggie, she seems to be in more denial than usual.
you say this is from marl? whoa, there goes my image of it as a school of innocents.
speaking of which, what part did you want advice about??

-_+Hak+_-

 
At 10:36 PM, Blogger Caffeine831 said...

no, hak, she's NOT from marlboro...
i need advice on everything...
what do i do to help her?
how do i deal with this stress?
or maybe just
who can answer these questions.

 
At 10:24 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hmmm well, if you trust her, then there's nothing to worry about
if you don't, then you could go to a counselor w/ the "i have this friend" speech. no, it doesn't matter what counselor. be warned: they will think you are talking about yourself.
dealing w/ the stress is both harder and easier. me, i'd just stop caring about it but i don't think you can do that...i'd say it'd be best if you kept a diary online that nobody knows about, or confided to someone you really trust, even if it's a pet

-_- Hak -_-

 
At 7:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

i need to talk to you more in detail

we need to see each other over break
call me
i love julie so much i might burst

 
At 10:59 AM, Blogger Caffeine831 said...

who left that last comment?

 

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